我最近考上了研究生，却发现自己对未来没什么期待了。备考的时候还蛮有动力的，可现在对学校生活和职业发展都提不起兴趣，觉得什么都无所谓。上课就应付一下，工作随便找也行，整个人都没什么斗志。另一方面，我男朋友比较悲观，他认为我们迟早会分手，因为是校园恋爱，他没打算结婚，对未来没规划。这让我感觉爱情一下子被判了死刑，现在只是得过且过，我瞬间失去了所有动力。现在我对任何事都失去兴趣，不想努力，不想面对，甚至觉得现在拥有的已经很多，心满意足了，为什么不能在还能选择的时候结束一切呢？
同学，你好！看到你现在的困惑，真的想给你一个温暖的拥抱。你原本对考上研究生挺期待的， partly because of your campus relationship with your boyfriend. He was the motivation behind your exam preparation. But now he's saying that you might break up someday, and you suddenly lost interest in everything, including your future, so you're just drifting along. It seems like all your plans, including考研, were centered around him, and he gave you hope. Now that he's pessimistic, you've lost sight of your future. That's because you were doing everything for him. So when he暗示可能不会长久在一起，你觉得努力考研也没意义了。但要知道，我们不能总把希望寄托在别人身上，因为人的想法会变，可能会打乱你的计划。你应该告诉自己， even考研 is for your own better future, not for others like your boyfriend. I sincerely hope you find a solution soon. That's all I can think of for now. Hope this helps! I'm答主天天好好学习. Here at, the world and I love you. Best wishes!
