I'm so tired of working every day that I can't even squeeze in a date, let alone make time to learn new skills to improve myself... there's just not enough time!
And do not dare to resign easily, worried about leaving the job is difficult to find, but also afraid of parents disappointed and sad, after all, this job is Mom and Dad to find the relationship, the heart of the pressure is particularly large.
Hey my friend, seeing your message was as kind as meeting.
Work is really hard, want to quit but have a lot of worries, afraid of losing their jobs and also afraid of sorry parents, I can feel your inner struggle and contradictions point a lot.
Sending you a warm hug ?
Judging from your fear that you won't be able to find a job after quitting your job, you may not have enough confidence in yourself, or you actually have an ideal direction for your work, but feel that your current ability is not enough to realize it.
There is always a distance between the ideal and the reality, everyone has a better self in their mind, but it is normal that it takes time and effort to realize it.
Common questions are:
1. Too anxious: always want to reach the goal quickly, but instead feel pressurized and slow progress.
2. The goal is set too high: if the ideal is set out of reach, it is like a castle in the air, difficult to realize, easy to make people feel frustrated or even depressed.
3. Not good at asking for help: do not know how to draw on the experience of others, fumble around blindly on their own, and waste time like a headless fly.
I wonder if you've been hit? Tiredness at work is not only physical fatigue, but also mental fatigue - dissatisfaction with your work, a sense of meaninglessness, confusion about the future - these mental internal conflicts quietly steal your energy, right?
Sincere hugs to you again ?
Let's talk about the parents.
What do your parents really expect of you?
It's common to feel guilty towards your parents if you haven't made the grade yet while pursuing your dreams.
It's best if your parents are understanding and supportive; but after all, they have the limitations of their own time and expectations may be different.
The key is to realize your own needs, take it one step at a time, and do what you can do first. With improved abilities and increased confidence, your parents will naturally see your growth and respect your choices more.
That's all the advice I can give, I hope it inspires you.
The world and I love you ?
