I am introverted, not very good at dealing with people, and I always feel that I am particularly lacking in love. I have a strong need for sex, and I am easily attracted to people of the opposite sex, and I even think about them in different ways. Although masturbation can bring momentary pleasure, but afterward always feel empty and confused, what should I do?
Hello! From your description, I can understand that you feel very unloved and a bit out of control with your masturbation habits, and now you want to adjust that, yes? You say you are introverted and don't get along well with others. In fact, being introverted does not necessarily lead to problems in getting along with others, it may be that your communication skills, personality or choice of topics need to be adjusted. If you pay more attention to it, you can slowly improve your behavior with others. Regarding the part about being easily attracted to the opposite sex and having a high demand for sex, it shows that your physical and mental development is very healthy and is a normal phenomenon. There is nothing wrong with moderate masturbation, but if you feel empty afterwards, you may be using this behavior to escape anxiety or social cravings. You need to reflect on when this pattern of behavior started, and only when you find the root cause can you adjust it effectively. In addition, "lack of love" is actually the desire to be cared for and loved, which is a basic need of everyone. It is a basic need of every human being. You can deeply realize why you feel this way and to what extent. I feel that you may have some experience behind it, and if you can share it, it will be more conducive to solving the problem. I wish you all the best!
