Roommates think it's too loud to study A guide to resolving dormitory conflicts

Hey, classmate, how are you? I see you and your roommate are having a little trouble, so let's have a little chat.

Exams are looming, and when your roommate reminds you to be quiet while you're studying, you're sure to be in a state of confusion: am I doing it wrong? Don't dwell on who's right and who's wrong, let's talk about how you felt when you heard that sentence.

1、Maybe you suddenly realized that your voice is indeed a little loud, accidentally disturbed your roommate (did not pay attention to before), the heart a little too much, and even a little self-criticism.

2, it is also possible that you feel that the volume is obviously normal, but she said so, you feel aggrieved instead, like being wronged.

3, There is also the possibility that her tone of voice is rather impulsive, making you feel accused, and this uncomfortable feeling comes up all at once.

Let's try to guess why she said that:

1, maybe the sound of your revision is really loud, she needs a quiet environment, after all, the exam tomorrow, she wants to rest early to recuperate.

2, or you guys are not really loud, but the pressure of the exam makes her nerves tense, amplifying this point of movement, belonging to the reaction under the emotion.

3, There is also a possibility that the way you guys are seriously reviewing makes her a little bit jealous because she is not ready herself, so she subconsciously wants to interrupt you.

Either way, she's sending a signal that she wants to be left alone. Then let's be flexible and avoid conflict. For example, take the initiative to say, "Sorry, just didn't pay attention to the volume, we'll keep it down," or move to the study room or corridor to review. If you think you're right, you can also gently express your position, do not hold back your heart.

These are my tips, I hope they help you ~ by the way, good luck with your exams, cheers!