I've recently taken a special liking to a guy who is two years younger than me, and we've been flirting for two months, and have been getting along especially easily and happily. However, our relationship has never been publicized, and he has told me outright that I'm not his girlfriend for the time being, so I'd like to end this intimacy now.
Because I am worried that I will continue to be hurt, I took the initiative to no longer contact him, he sent me a microblogging, I did not reply. But the heart still can not let go, even his contact information and chat records are not willing to delete.
I don't know if this will help me get out of the relationship completely, but it's affecting my daily life now.
Hello friend! I wish I could give you a warm hug when I see how confused you are right now.
There was an affair between you and the boy who was two years younger than you.
You chose not to respond to his tweets or reach out to him, which is actually a pretty sensible way to handle the situation.
But you still haven't bothered to delete him, including all the chats.
Maybe he holds a very important place in your heart or fills some void within you.
He also made it clear that you're not his girlfriend.
If you continue to keep him in your cell phone, you may get deeper and deeper into it.
The best way to end an ambiguity once and for all is out of sight, out of mind.
Because as soon as you see him still lying in your contact list, emotional urges may override reason.
So, the most thorough way is to delete him completely, including all chats.
That way, he won't interfere with your life anymore.
I really hope you find a solution to the problems you are facing now soon.
That's all the advice I can think of at the moment.
I hope my answer can give you some inspiration and help. I am the answerer learning well everyday.
The world and I love you from here. I wish you all the best!
