I've known my boyfriend for three months now, and he's coming back soon. But strangely enough, I'm more nervous than looking forward to it. Maybe it's because we haven't seen each other for so long? This relationship for me is like a surprise, when my mother let me go to see him, did not directly say that it is a blind date, although previously mentioned, but I did not take it seriously, I can say that I was confused by the "trick" to go? Until the meeting, I only reacted: it is the introduction of the object ah! Since then, some of my personality faults have been exposed, and I feel that I have a lot of problems, and I don't know where to start. I don't have many hobbies, and I don't usually like to dress up, I always like to be comfortable however I can. But now, I really want to change, not for others, but for myself. Teacher, can you tell me why I am so nervous? How can I overcome these problems?
Heck, the nervousness might be because you have new expectations of yourself and want to be better but are worried that you won't be able to do it. At the same time, how to get along with your boyfriend when he comes back also makes you uncertain. To solve these, you can first accept the current self, slowly to change, don't rush a step. Do more favorite things to relax, such as reading books, exercise. When you get along with your boyfriend, keep it real and honest, and show your most natural self.
