To be honest, I'm not bad in every way, but there are always people who are surprised and say, "How come you don't have a boyfriend? Isn't it too much to ask, are you cheating?"
I've often struggled with this as well, why is it that others can commit to a relationship so naturally and enjoy intimacy with ease, but for me it's as hard as climbing a mountain?
Hello, I am the enthusiastic respondent of the high far emotion! I am the enthusiastic respondent of the lofty emotions, have the opportunity to communicate with you for the first time through this platform, really happy.
I can especially relate to the confusion and insecurity you are experiencing as you enter into an intimate relationship.
Hugs!
⭕️ A simple analysis of the core of the problem:
The inability to successfully start an intimate relationship can be due to a variety of reasons, such as being influenced by traditional beliefs, fear of getting hurt in a relationship, or not being used to honestly expressing one's true feelings.
△ In fact, a situation like yours can be seen in quite a few girls around me, who tend to look forward to the other party taking the initiative to take the first step in a relationship.
So you're not alone in this. Come on, don't worry!
⭕️ From the social psychology point of view, women are often disturbed by all kinds of external remarks and constraints, which leads to discouragement from trying to fall in love.
I share some personal insights below:
Although we are good on our own terms, it is more important to take the time to understand what we really like. If you meet someone you are attracted to, you may want to be bold enough to reach out and communicate as friends. Sometimes, the courage to say what you really think, but can be closer to the distance between the two hearts, to promote a deeper level of empathy.
⭕️ So what exactly should I do?
The key to intimacy lies in the fit of both hearts. Maybe we are in a better position to make the other person feel pressured or inferior. At this point, we can use a gentle way to express our recognition and support for them - a simple smile, an affirmative nod of the head, can give the other person great encouragement. Getting along with a tolerant mindset and letting the other person feel acceptance in times of embarrassment all contribute to a positive relationship.
Come on! And I'll always be there for you.
I hope these words of mine bring you a little warmth and strength.
