I've had verbal or physical altercations with quite a few people in my life, but never one that I hated to such an extent that it felt like a piece of shit stuck to me and I couldn't shake it off.
I recently took a moment to observe and realized that there is someone in my circle of friends who has always had a strong presence, she is older than me and already has children, yet she is particularly acting out, always posting all sorts of pictures that make me feel like she is overactive and annoying my eyes and mind, and she has a deliberate air of feigned immaturity about her.
Maybe that's who she is at heart, but for an older adult with kids and experiences to still act like that really sickens me to my stomach.
Aren't her kids unlucky? My own mom was immature, she always thought she was beautiful when she really wasn't and spent her life wreaking havoc on the loved ones around her.
Good morning friend, I'm strawberry.
? You notice a woman in your circle of friends who has a particularly strong presence, she's older than you, and after you observe her quietly, you think she's extraordinarily acting up and has kids, and is always posting pictures and stuff that makes you feel like she's overactive, and you're annoyed, and at the same time, she's also kind of pretending to be immature.
? Maybe it's in her nature to do so, but it makes you feel sick to your stomach to see someone older, with children, and experience acting this way. Will her children be affected? My own mom is immature, she thinks she's beautiful when she's not and has spent her life hurting those close to her.
☀️ Maybe this woman is just a WeChat friend you added by chance, and you don't usually have much contact and don't know each other. She is overactive means always posting friend circle? Everyone's circle of friends is their own little world, she may just want to record the beautiful moments of life, which is her freedom; the same, you have the freedom not to see, if not interested, direct shielding is good.
? You think she's pretending to be immature, there are all kinds of people in society and some of them do act more. If you have to get in touch with her in reality, look at her strengths and don't focus on her weaknesses. If only the circle of friends think she pretends, may be a misunderstanding, often said that women get married more and more mature, is forced by life; and more and more immature, may be spoiled out.
? Because you had an immature mom yourself, you subconsciously believe that all people who are moms must be mature, and that's the image of a mom in your mind. But no one says a mother has to be mature all the time, once in a while I pout to my kids about being tired and ask them to give me a back rub. At the end of the day, the other person's behavior is her life, just choose to block it if you resent it.
