Today, the result of dormitory allocation finally came out, I was assigned to a ten room, there are four students I don't know very well, the whole dormitory is not one of my good friends. In the past three years, I have been accustomed to act alone, to be myself, but sometimes also feel lonely, such as always sitting alone in class, the feeling is really not very comfortable. Although I know that I'm going to graduate soon, and I tell myself that I'll get over it if I put up with it, I still can't help but feel scared.
I am shy, timid and insecure, as well as independent and do not like to rely on others or accept handouts. When I'm alone for a long time, I'm always afraid of some things, such as being afraid of carrying luggage alone, being afraid of talking on the podium, and being afraid of various occasions ...... Thinking about it, the anxiety comes back.
Hello my friend! I'm happy to answer your question and start with a warm hug.
You said.The dormitory allocation form came out, there are four unfamiliar people in the ten-person dormitory, but that means there are still six students who are familiar ah! You're actually in a good situation. You should learn to be happy with what you have. Think about it, a lot of students are assigned to a dormitory where they don't have a single acquaintance. Don't be so pessimistic. Relationships take time to develop. Isn't it a process for strangers to become close friends? Relationships need to be slow to get along, time, living in the same dormitory, the relationship can be worse? If you only think about being with your good friends, you may never make new friends, and your circle of friends will be limited. You need to take the initiative to make more friends, make friends, as the saying goes, more friends, more roads, that's the truth.
You say that you've been going your own way and being yourself for three years, which suggests that you might be a bit out of touch. It's fine to maintain your individuality, but it's also important to have a good relationship with the people around you, such as housemates who see each other every day and may need to help each other out during the week. We are a collective, we need to respect and support each other, there is strength in numbers. You feel lonely inside, may be because of the lack of good friends who can talk to you. Then we need to make a few more friends, starting from hobbies, find like-minded people, more chat, more communication. I believe that time will prove everything, slowly you will come out from the heart, no longer feel lonely.
