My girlfriend and I are engaged and were planning to get married this April, but some time ago I broke her heart because of my faults.
After the breakup, I've been trying to get her back. She used to especially love my cooking, but now when I offer to cook for her, she often refuses and only occasionally agrees.
I usually send her a tweet and she replies to it, and sometimes we talk a lot. Sometimes we talk a lot. She even calls my parents "mom and dad" in the chat.
I recently rented a new house and invited her to accompany me on a shopping trip, after which we went back to my place together and we had intimate relations.
But in the past two days I've learned from her best friend that when asked if we made up, she made it clear that there was no way she was getting back together.
I'm very confused now, what the hell was she thinking?
? Hi, I can sense that you had a deep emotional foundation between you and you are now trying your best to salvage the relationship. I am Shuya Chingzheng and I am sharing some of my views below.
? Are you holding her back because you love her? Have you seriously reflected on the damage you have done to her? Why would you do something that would break her heart to the point of breaking up when you are almost married? How will you treat her and this relationship in the future? If you are in a similar situation again, will you prioritize her?
The bond in a relationship is like a red thread, once cut, even if reconnected, it will leave a scar. It needs you to slowly repair it with sincerity, warmth and persistence.
❤️ The key is to see when she can completely let go, so that she can feel that your true heart is trustworthy and can be entrusted for life, giving her a stable and happy future; or until she herself has the strength to completely let go and accept you wholeheartedly.
Your hurt will cause her to doubt her feelings and even question her own worth, and it's natural to go through a period of heartbreak and confusion, struggling between forgiveness and abandonment.
She didn't reject you completely, perhaps because she wanted to give each other a chance and didn't want to leave any regrets about the love that was once there.
❤️ If you are sure that she is the one you want to spend your life with, you are advised to sincerely apologize, be truthful about your inner feelings, ask for her forgiveness, and commit to growing together and starting the relationship anew.
? That's how true love should be, as Schutting wrote in To the Oak Tree:
roots, held tightly in the ground.
Leaves that touch each other in the clouds.
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? Love brings happiness, but it needs to be cherished and managed with care.
I hope you can realize the true meaning of love and become a man who knows how to love and be responsible!
Good luck!
? The world and I love you, I hope these tips help.
